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Understand yourself. What powerlessness is teaching you. part 2.

Understand yourself. What powerlessness is teaching you. part 2.

Are there any advantages of feeling powerless?

Every pattern, emotion, every experience appears in our personal universe for some specific reason. From each such experience, we have the opportunity to draw some conclusions and lessons, as long as we open ourselves to understanding and inner / spiritual knowledge.

Some people may be surprised how, in this state feeling abused, without strength, without motivation, can you still be asking yourself about anything, looking for lessons in all of this? How can there be any good in suffering?

That’s very true, feeling these types of patterns is not easy or pleasant at all, but the more intense you feel something, the more important is to get to the point of the lesson hidden behind it for you.

The greater your attachment to a given pattern and emotion, the more difficult it may be to acknowledge the need for change, and the more difficult it will be for you to move to the stage of opening, understanding, accepting, transforming, letting go and manifesting change in your life. However, this does not change the fact that the lesson caught up with you and came face to face with you. What you do with it depends only on you.

How to discover what your helplessness is about to teach you?

It is enough to pay attention to the first emotion felt most strongly at the moment when you are going through your moment of powerlessness.

Ask yourself some key questions:

What are you really feeling?
Are there any other emotions hidden under the feeling of helplessness?
How would you name exactly as you can, your own feelings?
Try to describe your feelings as precisely as possible with familiar adjectives.
What / who pisses you off, makes you sad, angers, weakens you?
In what exactly situation and dependencies do you feel your helplessness the most?
When for the first time in this life time have you experienced comparable emotions and powerlessness?
To whom was this related to?
What types of dependencies were shown in this incident?
What would you really like to achieve by acting as the powerless?
What would you like to force on the environment?
Who would you like to force something on?
Would you like to punish someone / yourself?
Do you want to manipulate someone?
Do you want to get someone’s attention?
Whose and why?
Do you experience a sense of being a victim coupled with powerlessness?
Do you think the world is unfair?
Do you feel guilty?
Guilty of what and why?
and so on…

Have you made any modifications to your subconscious mind since the first helplessness event?
– if not, do not be surprised that the topic comes back to you in the same force or even more painful. It’s the natural process of getting your attention on a topic you’ve been ignoring so far.

What might powerlessness teach us?

The first and most obvious thing that comes to mind is strength, and therefore all that you may associate with it;

Raising up in the face of adversity; motivating oneself, gathering strength in oneself, finding inner strength in oneself;

Discovery of the program: I want to, but I cannot, I’m not allowed, I’m not good enough, I am not suitable, etc. Etc.;

Discovering self-esteem, dignity, respect and love by realizing how low these factors are and working to grow and strengthen them;

openness to help / openness to others, letting others into your world;

understanding that each of us is needed here and we are the Oneness, “what you will do to one of them, you will make me”;

learning to distinguish what you have real influence on and what on not / what is your attempt to impose your will and seek control over circumstances and people;

learning to respect free will;

to stop struggling with things that are beyond your control;

learning to allow life to thrive;

learning to accept things, situations, people, human behavior, human differences, views, goals, needs;

learning acceptance and understanding;

learning to forgive, to let go of what does not depend on us, to let go of control, but also to learn to let go in general;

learning to let go and being flexible depending on the development of the situation, learning to flow with the flow of life;

learning freedom and lightness;

learning to relax and trust in God and the universe;

learning to trust in God’s care and that everything is done according to our highest good;

learning to understand that God wants the best for us; and punishment is a human invention;

learning to let go of the achievement of a given goal in a way that your ego thinks it’s best, learning to trust and let the very source and universe act;

Release from hardness and rigidity of views, well-worn paths (learning the aforementioned flexibility) release from the mania of controlling yourself or others;

learning and understanding that everyone makes mistakes in the learning process;

letting go of the need to be perfect at all costs, to do everything perfectly, etc., to demand ideality from others

understanding that the only thing we have real influence on and the possibility of change is ourselves;

Learning to be responsible for yourself, for your decisions, for your creations, learning to create consciously;

learning to distinguish; faith / expectations versus reality without a lack of awareness / lack of knowledge and awareness of creation;

faith in yourself, your strength and unlimited divine possibilities;

and many other…